It is all in the mind

I was provoked by a message today.  It says "... I'm alone, I need to provide for myself.  What would you know?'.  What would you know?  Am not going to go into the details but how would I know?

I realized something.  People tend to judge on a very surface value.  

If you have a good relationship with your husband.  What do you know about being alone?  What do you know about not-so-good husband?  You are just a lucky bitch.  Most of the time, people fail to see that it was not by pure good luck that it happened.  That it has taken many hardwork, heartaches, sleepless nights, pillow drenched in tears, door slamming to arrive where you are today.

If you are living a better than average lifestyle.  What do you know about being broke?  What do you know about having to fend for yourself? You are again, a lucky bitch.  Born rich.  You just fail to advertise to the whole wide world the struggles before arriving at comfortable.  :p

Conclusion is, don't worry if you are a prostitute or rubbish collector today.  Someday, when you are living a better than average life, people will just say... "...Lucky fella.  What does he/she knows?.  :)

Really, a problem is just as big as you think it is.  A problem will not be a problem if you don't perceive it as one.  And life, goes on!